Death may be an uncomfortable or taboo topic to many, but everyone thinks about their final moments from time to time. You might wonder when you’ll pass, what will happen after, and how you’ll be remembered. However, have you ever thought about what you’d want to be doing when you depart from this world?
The insurance agency Choice Mutual created a survey to ask Americans about their dream departures. Do you want to spend your final moments in the peace and quiet of nature, or would you rather party with family and friends? The results reveal some interesting insights into what Americans value most from state to state.
Georgia residents imagine their sendoff with a Georgia Peach Martini, the perfect representation of Southern hospitality. Hawaiians, on the other hand, would choose to enjoy one last meal: a delicious plate of kalua pork.
In Mississippi, the birthplace of the blues, survey respondents said they’d like to spend their last moments listening to live music in a blues bar. Nevadans imagine themselves seeking their last thrills at the poker tables in Vegas.
The Granite Staters of New Hampshire would choose to pass away in Franconia Notch State Park, surrounded by the vibrant colors of autumn foliage. Lastly, Louisiana residents would go out in style at Mardi Gras, celebrating with parades and music.
Choosing the location is just one aspect of planning your perfect departure. Another consideration is whom you’d keep by your side in your final moments. Half of the respondents to Choice Mutual’s survey said they’d want to be surrounded by their family and friends. Meanwhile, 19% said they’d wish for just one special person to be there. Another 13% said they would want to be with their pets when they pass away.
What if you could set some mood music for your passing? The most popular response on the survey was Green Day’s “Time of Your Life” with 26% of respondents selecting this as their departure anthem. Second place goes to Journey’s “Don’t Stop Believin'” with 19% of the votes, followed by The Beatles’ “Let It Be” at 16%.
When asked about the atmosphere they’d like in their final moments, 27% of respondents said they want to go out laughing. About 24% said they’d like a peaceful, reflective vibe as they pass, and 22% said they would focus on spirituality.
How do you want to be celebrated after you depart? While 31% of survey respondents said they’d like their family and friends to throw a big party in their honor, another 29% had the opposite opinion, preferring a quiet memorial service. Another 15% chose a tree-planting ceremony.
As for their obituaries, 21% of respondents chose the opening line, “Always Made People Laugh,” which reveals how important humor is to so many people. Alternatively, 19% would prefer their obituary to mention how they were “Beloved by Family and Friends” or “Lived Life to the Fullest.” Although the details differ from person to person, Americans overall want to be remembered through love, joy, and connection.